Make Someone Fall in Love with Me: 5 Flirting Tips for Guys

Flirting and dating are necessary evils for anyone who wants to make someone fall in love with them. Some men love the feeling of conquest – of the hunt, if you will – during the flirting process. Others dread flirting because they feel they are not particularly good at it. Whether you happen to enjoy flirting or find it a stressful experience, it is always a good idea to find out what works and what does not.

The following tips are based upon the premise: “girls (women) are not guys.” In other words, you will need to alter your behavior a bit if you want to impress that special someone. This is especially true if you are the quintessential “guys’ guy,” but almost every man needs a bit of a tune up when it comes to how flirt successfully.

If you are saying, “Make someone fall in love with me!” follow these 5 tips for flirting for guys:

1. Keep your goofy humor in check
One tried-and-true tactic that almost every guy uses to get close to a cute girl (or a hot woman) is to kid with her, play the clown, and generally do whatever seems like it could be funny in the hopes of getting a rise out of her. Well, I am here to say that this is totally okay! However: make sure you tone down the goofiness a bit. Most girls do not think it is funny when you make noises by placing your hands under their armpits and and flying around the room, for example (you get the picture). Even if they are drunk, girls don’t like this. Save this kind of behavior for guys’ night out.

2. Go easy on talking about your past conquests
In order to impress a woman, many guys have been known to brag about all of the other women that have dated or otherwise been with. Big mistake! Women do not think it is cool to brag about your past relationship conquests. They do not want to know about that hot blonde with the great body you dated, or the sexy red-head who was a part-time model that you almost slept with. Similarly, they don’t want you to take them to a bar or restaurant where you know every lady in sight. Take her somewhere where you are both strangers and focus 100% of your attention on your date.

3. They admire a guy with a sense of style
Women love a man with a sense of style. Your lady doesn’t want you to show up at her door in torn jeans, faded shirt, and old shoes (unless that is your style – but most guys cannot pull this off successfully). Rather, when you hang out with her or show up for your first date, show her that you have a fashion sense and that you have put some effort into your looks.

4. Don’t be cheap on your first date
Once you get to the dating stage with your special girl, splurge a bit – especially on the first date. Women are not impressed by cheap restaurants, they don’t think it’s too cool when you pull out coupons when to pay the waiter, and they will find you unimpressive if you ask them not to order the most expensive thing on the menu. In other words: don’t make her think that she is not worth full price.

5. Show some class during your conversation
Once you have broken the ice and have established regular conversation with your lady, it is time to focus your attention on the topics that will fascinate her – or at least keep her interested. Do not make the conversation all about you. Remember, the sweetest music to anyone’s ears is their own name. Make the conversation about her: her interests, what she did today, what she wants in the future – and you will make her yours.

In the end, the best advice I can give you is to, of course, be yourself. But, with one special consideration: be the best, most romantic, and least self-centered self that you can be. That is the way to make her fall in love with you.